The Global Search of a Swedish Muslim

Opens Muzmatch. Let’s see what today has to offer. Eyes automatically look at the lower right corner: “Always prays.” Alright let’s look at the profile Bismillah. Holding breath. “Not willing to relocate abroad.”

Sigh.

Repeat.

 

I think I can safely state that it generally is not easy for Muslim women to approach men for marriage “in real life”. Muzmatch is definitely a safe space and the fact that it is so easy to use, especially for those leading busy lives, makes all other similar services dull in comparison. Yet for those of us not living in the UK or the US, it’s extremely hard finding suitable matches. Many of us women who do not take the brave step in marrying someone with a different ethnic background end up moving abroad, but that’s not an alternative for everybody.

During my search for Mr. Right, I’ve come across many who had no idea there were Muslims in Sweden, and “did I migrate here or am I born here?”. To be completely honest, this ignorance baffles me. There are Muslims and Asians all over Europe, and have been for ages – how is this news to some people? And no, not all of us migrated here in our adult lives; thousands of us were born and bred in countries all over Western Europe.

So many people find it difficult to find suitable matches in their vicinity – why not look abroad? What’s the worst that could happen? At the very least, you get to know about the cultures of other European Muslims. But writing restrictions on your profile like “UK/US citizens only please” feels highly discouraging – especially for those that are actually willing to move to the English-speaking superpowers. So many of the profiles suggested to me by the app show adventurous people that love traveling, yet marrying someone from a different place is not an option.

Frustration level: skipping the cardio for a tube of Pringles because I ain’t finding him anytime soon.

This is not something exclusive for the Muzmatch app. Whatever app or website you use for these purposes, you’ll see that the majority of the users are clustered in certain areas of the world. That leaves the rest of us stranded, scattered all over the world in hopelessness. Add to that being a female over 25 (which aunty-wisdom claims as the expiry date for us), and your Google search history lists things like “how to get a cat if you’re allergic”.

I say enough is enough. Something needs to be done about this, and so this is my attempt in highlighting us – Muslims, Asians, etceteras, living in other parts of Europe – maybe by reading this little post you will widen your search filters and at least read some profiles and see what the world has to offer.

Opens Muzmatch. “Always prays.” Alright Bismillah…

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Source article: https://themuslimliterati.wordpress.com/

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7 Responses

  1. Bilal sadiq says:

    Thank you for the suggestion. If anyone is interested in marrying, please let me know. You can find me on the app. I’m from USA. I will broaden my search. If anyone is interested in getting to know me, please email me at intgate At gmail.com . I am 30 years of age and my family is from Pakistan.

  2. Frs says:

    i see no problem for relocating in another country

  3. Frs says:

    If anyone is interested i am man from algeria here it is my email amine28@live.fr

  4. Fathia karsha says:

    I totally agree that widen the search for seeking a partner in marriage gives wide options
    I looking for husband for my sister who lives in Saudi Arabia . She is educated,have great personality, willing to move
    Please pass my information if there is any serious candidate

  5. shafiya says:

    Thanks for the suggestion..

  6. Hassan says:

    This is a very good observation. Please admin, I am having difficulties getting confirmation code my phone got damaged, had to redownload muzmaych and for weeks now I can’t get confirmation code. Sent 4 emails already on this issue.

  7. Swed says:

    Funnily. .enough I am looking for a girl in Sweden if I don’t find a Muslim one I will just marry a local non Muslim girl from there

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